When children are born, they already have emotional reactions. They can cry in response to frustration, hunger and pain.
As they grow and learn, they begin to experience other emotions. It can be difficult for them to understand and process their feelings at first.
It can take some time for your child to learn how to deal with their emotions.
Allow your child to be honest with you about how they feel. Listen to them when they tell you what they think and why they are acting in a certain way.
If your child has had a tantrum or outburst, try talking to them once they are calm. This may be the next day, and that’s OK.
Sometimes a child may have a meltdown because they feel overloaded, and these are different to tantrums. Read our articles on how to handle sensory meltdowns and autistic meltdowns.
If your child is older and you’re worried about how they’re acting, we have guidance on talking about difficult topics.