Your child going to school for the first time is a big milestone for you and for them. You are bound to have lots of feelings and might be wondering if your child is ready for school.
Here are some things you can do to help you and your child feel ready before they go to school for the first time. If your child is moving into a new year group, you can read our advice about getting ready for a new school term.
While this is an exciting time, it’s normal for children to have worries about starting school as well. You can help to settle their worries by talking to them about what they’re thinking and feeling.
Your child doesn’t need to be able to read or write before they start school. If they go to a pre-school or nursery, they might have been working on these skills already, but everyone in the class will be at different stages of learning, so don’t worry about how much they already know or don’t know.
It can help your child to master self-care skills in preparation for school. These skills can include feeding themselves, going to the toilet and washing their hands and getting dressed and undressed by themselves.
Your child starting school is a big step for both of you. It’s understandable that you may feel emotional about not having them at home as often and you may miss or worry about them when they are in school. Try to think about the positive experience your child is having, learning, growing and making new friends.
It’s important to be kind to yourself while you get used to this change:
If you find yourself worrying when they first start school, calling the school for an update may help to offer the reassurance you need. Schools know that this is a big step for children and their parents so they should be understanding.