Potty training tips to help you manage the process

Potty training can feel like a challenge at times. Remember that your child will get the hang of it, but it takes patience.

Be clear and consistent

Stick to a toilet training routine where possible. Children find the process easier when there is consistency.
Give short, clear instructions so they know what behaviour you want.
Don’t rush the process – potty training can take weeks or months.

Be aware of how your behaviour influences your child

Try to stay calm. Your child will look to you to know how to feel and react, so show them it’s OK to make mistakes.
Give lots of praise every time they try hard or do something well.
Don’t make a big deal about accidents. They’re nothing to be ashamed of.
Be patient. Encourage your child not to give up (and follow your own advice).
Share your potty routine with other carers. Different approaches from adults can be confusing for a child.

Read our advice on how to prepare for potty training or when to start potty training.

This advice was written by our experienced Parent Talk coaches. Parent Talk is a free online service for parents and carers provided by the charity, Action for Children. You can talk to our parenting coaches online using our 1:1 chat.

Potty training tips to help you manage the process

Be clear and consistent

Be aware of how your behaviour influences your child

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