The worry tree helps children offload worries instead of dwelling on them. Try practising this activity with your child when they’re feeling calm. They can then learn to use it when they’re feeling anxious or overwhelmed.
Print a copy of the worry tree or draw your own. Otherwise, ask your child to think about the questions below.
Ask three questions to get your child thinking:
If they can’t do anything about it, they should then try to put the worry aside. If they think they can do something, they can decide what to do and when they’ll do it. This could be ‘right now’, ‘this afternoon’ or ‘on Tuesday’. Once they’ve decided this, they should try to put the worry to one side.
If it helps, they can trying thinking about something else for a while. We have mindfulness tips can help Or they could write the worry on a piece of paper, then put it away in a box or in the bin.
For more ways to support your child, read about other ways to help them with anxious feelings.
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