Child exploitation: what you need to know

Child exploitation is something you might hear a lot about. It can be worrying for parents and carers to think about it.

By understanding what child exploitation means and how to spot the signs, you can be more prepared to protect your child.

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Some children are more vulnerable to exploitation than others. But any child can be a victim, regardless of age, gender, sexuality, ethnicity or disability. There are ways you can help protect your child from the risk of exploitation.

  • Spend quality time with your child on a regular basis. It’s a great way to stay connected to what is going on in their life when they’re not with you.
  • Make sure they know they can talk to you about anything. People who exploit children often rely on the child not telling anyone. Your child needs to know you will listen without judgement, rather than getting angry. That way, they are more likely to tell you about any concerns.
  • Talk to them about the risks of child exploitation. This might look different depending on their age and level of understanding. There are some brilliant resources online that can help you with this.
  • If you are unsure you can talk to someone at your child’s school for some more information. Or you can use our 1:1 live chat to talk to one of our expert parenting coaches.

Signs your child might be being exploited

  • Sudden changes in their friendship groups.
  • Regularly not knowing where they are.
  • Problems in school. They might skip school or get into trouble more often.
  • Unexplained money. If they have money and you are not sure where they have got it from.
  • Unexplained gifts. If they have new posessions and you don’t know where or who they came from.
  • Change of physical appearance, including the type of clothes they wear.
  • Changes in behaviour. They might be more aggressive, or more secretive.
  • Experimenting with drugs or alcohol.
  • Unsafe use of the internet. This might include sharing indecent and nude pictures. It might be having conversations about sex. Or about drug taking and other crimes.
  • Unexplained injuries. This might be because of self-harm, or harm caused by someone else.
  • Being picked up in cars driven by adults you don’t know.
  • Being in a relationship with someone who is much older than them.

What should I do if I am worried?

  • If you worry your child is a victim of child exploitation, talk to someone about it.
  • Reach out to their school and tell them everything which makes you worried.
  • You can also reach out to your local children’s services. The process is slightly different depending on where you live. But the information should be available on your local authority’s website.
  • If your child is in immediate danger, ring the police by dialling 999.
  • You should also ring the police if you don’t know where your child is and you are worried they are being exploited.
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