Home schooling when both parents have to work from home

You won’t always have much choice about home schooling during the pandemic, but it can be a challenge when both parents work from home. Plan ahead, stay flexible, and use schedules to give everyone space.

Most of us want to do a good job at work, so it’s natural to want to prioritise our own deadlines or work responsibilities. But remember you only have a limited amount of energy. Think about how you can balance everyone’s needs where possible.

Start with a family or parents’ chat to discuss how to make things work for all of you. You could consider:

• What does a school day look like? Will your child spread work and breaks throughout the day, or concentrate on school work during the morning?
• Can you and your partner take turns? For instance, one could spend the morning with the children, and then swap over in the afternoon. That way you both get some dedicated work time.
• Can your manager help? Talk to your employers about flexible work patterns, workloads and deadlines.

Schedules help everyone know what they’re doing, and have enough space to do it.

• If they’re old enough, give children activities to do on their own while you both get on with work.
• Schedule important work tasks during your dedicated work period. For instance, arrange to make phone calls while your partner has the kids.

Don’t get disheartened if getting to grips with home schooling feels like a challenge.

Aim to be flexible. Sometimes school work won’t get done when or how you plan. Just try to fit it in again the next day. If it helps, think about different routines. Could you work when the children go to bed? Or try a much shorter school day to give both parents time to work?

There’s been a of change during the pandemic and everyone is learning as they go. Compromise where you can to keep the peace, and be patient with each other.

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